El poder desde ego vs. el poder desde el Amor

Hoy por la maniana tuve una revelacion.
De esas tan fulminantes q se tienen cuando uno esta sentado, preferentemente en el banio.

Es acerca de como se puede ejercer el poder personal desde diferentes puntos.
El poder se puede ejercer desde el ego, o bien desde el amor.

El poder desde el ego, busca controlar y dominar.
El poder desde el amor busca liberar.

El ego trata de imponer su punto de vista a la contraparte. Mira! YO TENGO RAZON. O como ya dije en "Victims of Love" Si fueras mas asi, o menos asa.

La polaridad, es el amor.
El verdadero amor, libera. Libera de los temores, de las limitaciones y de cualquier manipulacion.
El acto mas amoroso que se puede hacer a alguien es darle la libertad de ser quien es, de pensar como piensa y de sentir lo que siente.
De liberarlo de chantajes y manipulaciones.
De liberar su grandeza interior, y hacerla brillar mas.

Cuando se ejerce el poder desde el amor, ambas partes salen fortalecidas. No se busca imponer una respuesta o una condicion. Se dan perspectiva y alternativas. Ya esta en el otro escoger la mejor opcion.
Se le da la libertad de elegir, y no la presion de "obedecer".

Entonces... hay 2 puntos desde donde ejercer el poder. En una, uno gana y el otro pierde. En la segunda, todos ganan.

...Y tu, desde donde ejerces tu poder personal?

Today...

Today I changed my mind.

Back to Mexican Reality

And well...

Back to my life.
Feeling like all my London experience was a Quantum Leap , I came back to my normal life in Mexico.

Yesterday, I went with 3 of my friends to do some cycling. I could only achieve 6 kms, as I am in a very poor shape. :(
Later on, we went to Karina's house, and ate some tortas and quesadillas. Yiau!

Evening time, I went dancing, such a great club. I danced a lotttt. :D

I am still in the process of re-adapting to my country and my people. I've only been here for a week, and my "revolutionary" beliefs are already causing itchiness in my mexican fellas.

What happens in London is that we are all different, so there isn't a unique pattern that rules for all. The values of a japanese, are very different from a muslim.
So, it is very hard to "judge" someone, or something.

My country is exactly the opposite. I was really surprised to realise how conserved mexican society is. We do not have contact with foreign people.

1) Because we are next to the States and everyone wants to go there, not coming to Mexico (And no one wants to go to Guatemala or Belize)
2) The borders are so far from Mexico City.

So, we have an inmigrant population of nearly zero.
In mexican mentality, we are all the same.

That means, we are ALL measured with the same parameter. We ALL have to be married before 30, [I am becoming an excellent prospect to singledom], to be considered "succesfull" we ALL have to have a 9-6pm job, in an excellent company, we ALL have to dress appropiately and we ALL have to think sex is a sin and not a absolutely amazing and fun experience.

I see myself and realise I evolved one or two light years. I learned that not everything is Mexico (surprise!), not everything outside Mexico is USA (surprise! surprise!) and not everything outside USA is Europe or Western civilization (surprise! surprise! surprise!).

As I said in "Thank you very much, indeed" , I am living now the purest version of my self. And I've never been so happy with me since I met me. (Well, maybe when I was in the kindergarden) So, I refuse to go back to limiting beliefs. It is antinatural.
Life is evolution, not involution.

And this is just the beginning. I have only been here one week.

I guess my father and the mexican society will have to resign I am the black sheep, and deal with it.

Thank you London!

Not for the uniform.
But for the attitude.